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Lesbian erotics

Karla Jay
The first anthology to investigate cultural production of lesbian sexuality The question of whether lesbians have sex, how they have sex, and when they began having sex has long obsessively preoccupied the heterosexual imagination. Today, discussions of lesbian sex abound with such terms as romantic friendships, stealth lesbians, and genitally sexual. As we approach the end of the twentieth century, lesbian sexuality remains hotly contested ground. What exactly qualifies as lesbian sex? What is the relationship, if any, between lesbian erotica and heterosexual pornography? How did the issue of sex in lesbian communities come to be such a fiercely debated subject? Lesbian Erotics is the first anthology to investigate the cultural production of sexually charged images of lesbians in film, law, literature, and popular culture in general. The contributors address an enormous range of sexualities and fora in which these sexualities flourish. In her chapter, Not Tonight, Dear, I'm Deconstructing a Headache: Confessions of a Lesbian Sex Therapist , Marny Hall illustrates how difficult some women find it to maintain erotic tension in lesbian relationships. Elizabeth Meese grapples with increasingly complex sexual identities in cyperspace. Kitty Tsui, cover model for On Our Backs , relays how she developed her own body into an art form in order to combat stereotypes of passive and invisible Asian women. This work, as Karla Jay writes in the introduction, invites readers to consider the implications, variations, and complexities of lesbian erotics. In the end, it is our sexual lives that mark us as outlaws. Therefore, we need to investigate and engage representations of our sexuality to define for ourselves, if we so choose, the scope, shape, and permutations of lesbian erotics.
New York University Press 1995-04 283 pages

Her neighbor's pleasure

Shosha Pearl
Who knew kosher sex could be so sexy? Esther is a rabbi's daughter, a rabbi's wife, a teacher, and the mother of three young children. She is also more than a little fascinated with the young couple who live in the apartment across from hers. When, late one night, she accidentally witnesses her neighbors having sex, Esther's life is turned upside down. Hit by a sudden and inescapable sexual awakening, Esther must navigate the chaos that pursues her marriage, her husband and, most of all, herself. Welcome to Shosha Pearl's world of Orthodox Jewish erotic romance, where the characters are religiously observant and the sexy parts conform with Jewish laws on love and relationships. But don't be fooled, that still leaves a lot of scope for the imagination. Want to read more Shosha Pearl? Just head over to www.shoshapearl.com for more.
Independently Published 2004 74 pages